Deuteronomy 6:5 Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.
This is something that gets lip service in sermons and I have seen it exampled by some, but it deserves a lot more attention. Can you say that God is number one in your life? Is He alone worthy of your praise? Do you love your God more than you love your wife and family? Does God ask us to put Him above everything else in our life? Is that selfish of Him?
This is a tough one, it really is. I don’t claim to have all the answers, and I know I fail to put God first in my life at times. But I do believe that it is right to do so. I believe God expects this of us for our own good. First let us examine what can happen when we do not put God first;
A wife devotes herself to her childen so completely that her husband feels neglected. The marriage fails and the children she wanted to give everything suffer big time.
A husband devotes himself to his career to the point that he is unable to give proper attention to his wife and kids. Again the marriage fails and everyone pays the price.
A man is devoted to a certain cause of justice or charity. It is all he speaks about. Friends who have other priorities start falling by the wayside. He finds himself all alone in his quest.
I could go on and on, but you see what I am getting at. Life is about priorities. Here are some of the priorities that we must juggle with in life aside from God; spouse/partner, children, family, friends, charity, leisure, justice, politics, environment, equality, etc. There are many more things we must deal with on a day to day basis and these don’t even touch on the whole career, money and trying to provide for our family thing. It is no wonder that people are stressed and confused. How do we deal with all of this? And now you tell me we should put God first?
Yes! Emphatically I say yes! Putting God first is the best way to handle all of these other priorities in life. I have found that I am one of the worst for zoning on on one thing in my life, allowing all other things to suffer. Maybe you are good at setting priorities and managing your life, but even so, putting God first in all things can only help.
What does “putting God first” mean? Does that mean that we must talk about God all day long? Do we have to pray so much we wear holes in our jeans before they need a washing? Do we have to stop and research every decision we make? No. Putting God as number one does not relieve us of our other worldly priorites. Going to an extreme on this is not healthy either, except in the case of a sabbatical or a time of mourning.
Here are my thoughts on this;
(1) There should be (at the least) a time of prayer and preparation at the start of each day, and a time of reflection near the end. This may be short or long depending on what is going on in your life, but it is a great practice to get into.
(2) Once a week (at the least) we should set a time to study His word and spend some personal time with God in prayer or meditation. You may not be into meditation, but at least there should be nothing distracting you. If others are watching TV, ask them to turn it down, go into a room and close the door.
(3) In all our personal time with God we should recogize His importance. The prayer Jesus gave us starts out this way; Our father, who art in Heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Recognizing God as most important in our lives should be the start of all prayer, but we do not stop at that;
(4) Loving and worshipping God is not just something we say. Our praise must result in action. We can say we love God all we want, but if we do not love and serve others we miss the whole point of life here on earth. Reading His word and praying should result in a knowledge of what God wants us to do with our life. We are here for a reason. The Bible and the Holy Spirit are tools to help us discover that purpose. If you are not sure what that is yet, do something and continue to ask for guidance. Believe that He will show you what you are to do.
Putting God first does not mean we love our wife or husband any less. It does not mean we do our job with any less effort. It does not mean that we serve and love our neighbor any less. In fact, we will be able to do all these things with more love and effort. God is the source of all love and the more we go to Him to receive His love, the more we will be able to love others as we should. The more we read His book of life instructions, the more we will be able to keep our priorities in life.
Yes, God does require that we put Him above everything else here on earth. You may say that is selfish of Him, but I do not believe that. I believe He asks this of us because He loves us more than all of creation. He put so much love and care into His creation; what a wonder it is! Yet He loves us so much He sacrificed His only Son that we might be with Him always.
Praise be to God and to God alone!
Psalm 62:1 My soul finds rest in God alone
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